I think the honeymoon phase is over

Sometimes I am a bad wife...

I probably make dinner like 3 times a week, if that, and its never a full dinner... more like here is some spaghetti (no salad or bread or anything) my husbie asks what we are going to have for dinner and I say... ugh... can I make you some top ramen? I wish I liked to cook, or was good at it, but I'm not...

And then my husbie breaks his hand (is it actually broken? i don't know but it looks pretty bad) and I'm like, oh lets put some ice on it... seriously if it was me (drama queen) I would scream and cry and milk it, but he just puts some ice on it... I think working in social work stripped me of my compassion...

I don't think I have seen the hour of 10 AM for at least a week... I put a dark sheet over the window in my room so I never know what time of day it is... I could sleep forever and never think twice about it (I am my mothers daughter)... my poor husbie is up by 7 am every morning, waiting patiently to start the day... by the time I'm up he is ready for a after lunch time nap... so neglected

I have a lot of goals and aspirations... but working from home, any hours I want is just making me lazy... I think Ill lay by the pool and drink a mojito... I cant be bothered to do anything that is actually important...


  1. don't feel too bad, it took me a couple of years before I started adding side dishes to dinners! Oh and I am a firm beleiver that summer dinner rules are totally different than winter dinner.

    oh and if you think you should be up earlier, give me you number I will call you when I get up :P enjoy the sleep, someday you will be a momma and have no choice.

  2. Sound like you guys need a schedule..like you have to be up and work at a normal hour(no 10 or 11 is not normal)do your work outs and get out of the house everyday for something even if it's to walk around the mall or something.
    You can't be a fun cooker everynight until you have money to buy ingredients and sides so you have permission to slack there but you should set meal times and eat a tthe table to get away from Stevie the TV

  3. you are DEPRESSED!! you need help....get some!